In August of 1996, I was 28 yrs old. I had noticed a large mole on my right calf, but thought it had always been there. Family and friends finally convinced me to have it looked at. My general doc told me it was nothing. I asked for a referral to a dermaltologist. It took me 2+ weeks to get an appt. I went, they did a biopsy, and 2 days later was being told I had to have major surgery immediately. It was a Clarks Level Stage 2/3 Melonoma. This kills people. I had surgery, as this was the only way to ensure getting all the cells, due to the depth and width of the mole. I have no idea how long it had been there.
I have scar tissue on my left thigh from the skin grafts, and a scar from having my right lymph node removed. It took me almost a year to recover physically. Emotionally, much longer. Dealing with insurance companies was a nightmare. My fun, carefree life at 28 had come to a complete halt, and it took me awhile to realize how lucky I was to even be alive. Today I am cancer free, 11 years this very month. As silly as it sounds, I am not self conscious any longer to wear a skirt.
In fact I wear them all the time! For a few years after the surgery I was afraid to, but now I want people to ask me what happened. This is the second most common cancer that kills women today, and becoming more prevelant every day.
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